“I think some people are just inexplicably bonded. Drawn by forces beyond their own comprehension, they have no choice but to gravitate toward one another. Destined by fate to keep crossing paths until they finally get it right.”—
(via keosea)
If you want to be happy, be.
If someone or something makes you happy, fight for it. Fight for what you believe is happiness for you and you alone. If it works, awesome. If not, at least you know you gave it a hundred percent no hesitation.
If you want to be happy, be 💜
Hey lil one, you’re learning
I’m talking about me, yes third person speaking terms. Heeey I’m back! And I’m STRONGER than I’ve ever been.
As many would say “shit hit the fan,” and as much as I wish there could be a way to undo all that I’ve done.. I can’t. So here I am. Growing and learning along the way.
Lessons can be tough, and sometimes a hard fall is what we need to realize what life is trying to teach us. Personally I feel that I’ve learned so much more about myself in the past month than I have in the past 26 years of my life.
I’ve learned how much trust and vulnerability go hand in hand, and once tainted or broken, is something that is almost impossible to gain again. Call me crazy, but I think that having trust as your solid foundation of any sort of relationship whether that may be family, friends, significant others, is what you need to build upon that.
Common sense, right? I think we can all agree that trust is something you need to grow, flourish and nurture that relationship. BUT given to the wrong people/person, with your vulnerability and WHAM — you get taken advantaged of, they treat you and your trust like NOTHING. Like all that you’ve poured into them equals nada, nothing, zip, zilch.
My word for the year is T R U S T. Last year I went against my gut for the first time in x amount of years, and boy oh boy, if you’ve got intuition; Use. That. Shit. No joke. “Trust your gut.” And I promise you 99.99 percent of the time, you’re probably right.
Moving forward, I feel like I’ve become more in tune with my needs and wants. I feel like as an independent woman I’ve learned a lot within the past 30 days of the year, and I’m excited to see what else I can learn throughout 2019.
In the meantime, I’ll be doing me. This includes self love, spending time with loved ones (family and friends), balancing my life and reigniting my passion and love for hula. I’ll be doing me for me, and only being the best that I could possibly be for myself and no one else.
Until next time 💖
Level up
Personal growth is essential
Honestly, this past year I’ve grown so much. With my own personal growth sometimes it goes to show somethings/people don’t change.
I’m regrounding myself. My values, my perspective, everything.
All I know is that I am growing with the season. I need to love myself fully and whole heartedly again before I even try to pour myself into someone else. I need to be happy independently rather than depending on someone. I need someone that compliments me and not completes me.
I know what I want in a lover, I know my worth, I know that me finding someone won’t happen anytime soon. But I know what I need to have a happy, loving, lasting relationship. I know what kind of love and happiness I am deserving of. All of this is my biggest lesson.
It’s gonna take time for sure. I’m taking this energy and using it as a driving force to keep me going. Keep on keeping on.
Cheers 2018, thanks for the lessons.